Fixes serial vs parallel HDF5 issue

We now set HDF5_PREFER_PARALLEL to true in order to make sure that the
correct parallel version of HDF5 is used on systems where also a serial
version is installed.

This does the trick on Ubuntu 18.04 and Debian GNU/Linux 9.12.
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